Can Christian Hospitality Hinder Gospel Ministry?

Consider this quote from Tim Keller:

The church has got to become such that every part of its life is hospitable to people who are not believers or don’t know what they believe. So they can come into the groups and into worship, into virtually everything we do and not feel confused or offended or kind of badgered, so that they can have multiple exposures to the gospel in myriad different ways because it’s the only way they were going to have deep world-view change. They need multiple exposure from multiple perspectives and the only way that’s going to happen is if every part of the church is changed so that it is hospitable to them.

Then I read the following Scriptures:

..we preach Christ crucified: a stumbling block to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles’ (1 Cor. 1:23a)

‘I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.’ (Jn. 16:33)

Taking the biblical context into consideration, particularly for the latter text, (where Jesus is specifically referring to his disciples), I don’t think it is beyond the pale to apply the principle into our modern day lives, particularly considering the multiple churches just burned down by extremists in Egypt, Nigeria & Syria (not to mention the unreported cases in China and other ‘closed’ countries). The early church was warned to expect opposition to the message of the gospel and, my goodness, did it come. A quick perusal of the New Testament confirms that! The book of Hebrews is a case in point as we read that many of the early Jewish converts were under enormous pressure to leave the faith and return to the ‘old ways’. They faced enormous persecution and the pastoral advice was to hold fast, remember that Christ is better and that they had not yet resisted ‘to the point of shedding blood’. Food for thought in our mollycoddled age!

Now, I am sympathetic with what Tim is trying to communicate (at least as I have understood it). The church does need to be a hospitable place where people with legitimate faith questions can feel able to come and engage in meaningful ways. Nor am I not suggesting for one moment that we are inhospitable. However, my concern (and I would hope it’s Tim’s too) is that in an effort to be inclusive to those outside the faith that we (inadvertently, perhaps?) can somehow lessen the offense of the gospel. That in our efforts to win people we downplay the heart of the message which calls people to a place of repentance for their sinful, wilful rebellion against Almighty God. I just don’t see how unbelievers can spend time with authentic Christians in whatever context and not be offended by the gospel. I think that if they’re not being offended then they’re not being exposed to authentic gospel living. I think if people walk away from a christian community feeling good about themselves and their spiritual condition, then they have not understood what is at the heart of our lives. They have not understood what Jesus meant in John 18 when he had to ‘drink the cup of God’s wrath’. The gospel is, in its very core, offensive to unbelievers. It is deeply confrontational. A Holy God confronts a sinful person about their spiritual standing before him and the consequences of such for all eternity should they remain unmoved toward repentance and faith in His name. Authentic Christians living in authentic community annoy people. In fact they do more than annoy people. They stir up self-righteous hatred. Pick up any history book and log on to most any Christian website on the suffering church and you will soon see the bloody cost of authentic gospel living (how many of the early disciples were martyred) and the price still being paid in blood today by believers all over the world.

Of course we must put effort into effectively engaging with world-views. Tim calls it the ‘baseline cultural narrative’. In other words, we need to answer the question for people about what is wrong with the world and how we go about fixing it. In order to do that effectively we need to be engaging with people and understanding their thought processes. That is (or should be) a given for all serious missiological thinkers. I suppose my overarching concern is this: once we get past all the cultural baggage (on all sides) and get down to the ‘nitty gritty’, people are lost sinners, going to a lost eternity, judged by a Holy, Loving and Just God and the only way to fix that is through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ as Saviour & Lord. I am not quite getting how we make that sound more hospitable. In fact my worry is that in our efforts to make unbelievers more comfortable with Christianity and our culture (however it looks in our own particular contexts) we sort of get embarrassed by the ‘hard’ bits.

Now, we are constantly looking for ‘cultural gaps’ in order to bring the gospel to bear in our specific situation(s) here in inner city Niddrie. For instance, many people here go to ‘Spooky Church’ (the local name for mediums and spiritist meetings). They go to connect with the dead or to receive some ‘good news’ or a ‘future reading’. Our approach is not to belittle what they are doing, nor even attack it, but to seek to understand their motivation behind attending. I remember one young lady being surprised after a conversation we had.

Her:You Christians don’t believe in all this stuff do you?’

Me: ‘Don’t kid yourself love. We deffo believe in it. It’s very powerful stuff.’

It was a great gateway into a gospel conversation. It resulted in her coming to a couple of meetings and being introduced to various members of our faith community. She went out for meals with people. She went to the cinema and she hung out with people. We didn’t ‘Bible bash’ her or badger her or try to impose our belief system upon her. We merely shared life with her and acted in accordance with our own community’s distinctives and beliefs.  I remember her being very moved and affected by community life. But the rubber hit the road when the term sin came up quite naturally from the pulpit and in general conversation. That’s when the mood turned ugly. That’s when her hackles began to rise. Why so? Well, because (in her opinion) she was not a sinner. That, despite our continuing offer of friendship, was the end of her involvement with us. Sadly, she continues to go to the ‘spooky church’ because (her words) it makes her ‘feel better about herself’. My point is that, yes, we can be great observers of culture and world-view. We can even be masters at finding the cultural connection points and we can be wonderfully hospitable in myriad ways but, sooner or later, people must face up to the full gospel of Jesus Christ. There is no hiding it or soft soaping it. People are sinners, rebels and they wilfully suppress the truth about the reality of God in the world. Jesus came to earth to do a dirty, ugly, bloody, messy, wonderful job. He loved the poor. He showed kindness to the outcast. He is our example of perfect, sinless hospitality but they still took great joy in nailing Him to that tree when they understood who He claimed to be and what He stood for.

Our job is simply to proclaim the good news of his death and resurrection in ways that are meaningful, and understandable for our particular cultural contexts. Our job is to love people. Our job is to be gracious and hospitable to all. But we must not, we dare not, flinch from the task the master has set us. Christian community is tied together by many things: love being over all. But it is a fact that what binds us is a message that is still foolishness to those that are perishing. It is offensive. It is considered, narrow, homophobic, bigoted, unreasonable, outrageous, judgemental and outdated.  It is the gospel. It is what we gather around. It is the glue that holds us together. It has been entrusted to us to live out and proclaim. The reaction we leave to God. Some will hear joyfully and believe but many will react with anger and horror and reject both the message and the messenger.

We press on.


Posted by Mez McConnell

Mez McConnell, is the Senior Pastor of Niddrie Community Church (Edinburgh, Scotland) and the founder and Ministry Director of 20schemes. He has been involved in full time pastoral ministry, both church planting and revitalisation since 1999.

  1. Thanks for sharing this… How true and necessary it is for Christian groups to be families in God open to all, taking the outsider as they are… Bless you and may you all know MUCH of God’s protection, wisdm, blessing and surprises! We here do the same in middle-class commuter belt Surrey. Different scenarion but still folk made in God’s image needing to discover Him who is all in all. Thanks for being a mutual encouragement. And may the Lord overrule in His timings and ways for locals to discover that the Special Saviour is more exciting and fulfilling than “Spooky Church”…


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